I am getting married on 12-10-11 which will be my fiancés birthday. I’m confused should I buy I separate cake for her birthday or wedding cake will be sufficient. And if I’m having only the wedding cake than what should it topper contain “Just married or a happy birthday quote for her. She loves roses so I was thinking of having flower cake toper. How to make wedding cake topped with real roses? And what kind of initial cake toppers should I use single letter cake topper, full monogram cake topper, or a custom design. Can anyone also suggest which the most popular flavors are?