My brother is getting married, and since his fiancée has decided for a destination wedding, we all are going to shell out exorbitant amount of money that would include airfare and stay as well. I wanted to know from some wedding expert whether the airfare and stay at the hotel would not be included in the wedding expenses! If it would not, do you think, it would be appropriate to ask the bride-to-be to give the destination wedding a second thought, and choose some venue that could be comparatively closer and feasible for all the guests and family! Please advice!