The importance of the bridesmaid and best man in a wedding

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In a Christian wedding, the role of the groomsmen and bridesmaids are very important. These selected people are chosen by the bride and groom to stand along with them in front of the altar. The people selected to be groomsmen and bridesmaids are those who are very close to the future couple.

Their contributions in the lives of the to be husband and wife are very important. They are people who can be their co-workers, best friends, childhood friends, relatives etc. The bridesmaids and grooms men are not just people who stand by the couple in front of the alter. They also have certain responsibilities and play a role during the planning of the wedding.

Nevertheless, what is the significance of having a bridesmaid or a groomsman? Let us find out


As per the traditional times, this practice started in the Ancient Roman civilizations. The people back then were very superstitious about certain aspects of the wedding. The guests chosen to be the bridesmaid and the groomsmen were people of great honor. The reason why they were dressed in their similar respective attire was to ward off any evil eye that fell on the bride or groom.

Romans also believed that by doing this, it would confuse any evil spirit and they won’t be able to reach to the bride or the groom. The bridesmaid and best man were considered to be the defenders of the future couple.  Although today this practice is still a prominent tradition, however, not many people know what it exactly signifies.

No doubt, the people who are honored for such a position during the wedding are those who are very close to the heart. When the bride and the groom say the two special words I DO, these special people share that moment by handing over the rings to the respective person so that they can start their new journey.

The responsibilities of the bridesmaids and grooms men

bridesmaid and best man

During the wedding preparations, the selected people who stand by the future couple in the alter are handed over certain responsibilities. As a team, they work together to ensure that the wedding planning goes smoothly. Apart from that, they are also responsible for taking care of major details like the wedding gown or suit, organizing the pre and post wedding parties, and even ensuring that the bride and groom do not take stress.

The respectable people also ensure that they take care of the guest list, co-ordinate with each other, and usher the guests during the wedding ceremony. The best man and maid of honor are responsible to handle the rest of the team. They are assigned very specific tasks and have to be with the bride and groom at all times.

The wedding celebrations on its own consist of various traditions. For the bride and the groom, this team ensures that all the traditions are followed. From day one of the wedding planning until the big day and even post the wedding, the bridesmaid and groomsmen are on their toes.

The modern twist to the traditional practice


Today we do have wedding planners that take care of everything. Back in the old days, this team of people used to take care of the entire wedding planning. They were also responsible to get the bride and groom ready for their big day

Today, considering that brides and grooms plan most of their weddings by themselves, the bridesmaids and groomsmen do most of the running around along with the wedding planner. Although traditions have altered to suit the modern times, without a doubt, there are still some aspects that are yet followed even in these modern times.

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