Choosing between silver and gold is just hard. I like both, and both go with my color matter of my wedding. My wedding color theme is a mixture of moccasin and slate gray. The napkins are a slate gray color and I have to make a choice for the napkin ring. The thing is silver and gold both look nice. I can’t decide, so what do you guys believe it should be? I have to make a decision with the rest of the items, like the glasses too.