I need some unique memorial ideas. We had originally decided to have a memorial service during the wedding ceremony. I started to make the list and realized that we’d be there all day. I tried to ask my fiancé and my mother who I could cut from the list and they found no one. So now we’re thinking a memorial ceremony is not such a good idea. I don’t really want to get the candles because I want them to have the names on them which will cost a lot of money because we have a lot of names. So does anyone have any ideas? Also someone had told me flowers I have allergies and I want something different and unique.