I’m engaged and want to have a big rehearsal dinner with all my family, friends and colleagues. Is it bad Etiquette to invite everyone even if I am not planning on inviting everyone to the wedding? I’m planning on inviting 200 people to the wedding but all don’t include all my friends and co-workers. Is it possible to do a big engagement party with everyone so that we can explain to them that we are having a smaller wedding? Kindly revert soon?