I’m engaged and want to have a big rehearsal dinner with all my family and friends. Is it bad etiquette to invite everyone even if I am not planning on inviting everyone to the wedding? I’m planning on inviting two hundred plus people to the wedding but all don’t include all my friends and co-workers. Is it possible to do a big engagement party with everyone so that we can explain to them that we are having a smaller wedding? Kindly revert soon.