My wedding is going to take place on 14 April, and my mom and dad are planning the bridal shower on 15th February. Today is December 22nd, and I am still not able to decide when should I send the bridal shower invitations to guests. Ideally, I am supposed to send the wedding invitation around 8 weeks before, and bridal shower invitations about 4 weeks before. Nevertheless, I was wondering, if we could send both the invitations together, and get the RSVP’s from the guests on time, to get a head count consequently! I would really like to know from some wedding expert whether I could send both the invitations together! Moreover, when should I send them, to get the RSVP’s on time! Please advice aptly! Thanks.