Lovemaking, especially on the first night of your wedding should be sensational and pleasurable to cherish throughout your love life. There are few techniques which can really help in spicing up the sex life and making it salacious. The bride and groom should enjoy every moment of the event and it can only be possible. You should know what the magical ways are to seduce each other and remeber this night forever. You could re cherish it at more times than one. Re kindle the love when remembering the night. Make it so special and intimate that the you can just not forget it.
1. Set your mood
Wedding night sex does not start with the bedroom; it starts with the onset of the night. You can try casual flirting and preparing your partner for the wedding night. You can complement the looks and your eagerness. Sometimes, these casual flirting among crowd can be a great sexual stimulant. If you and your partners are in a relationship then you need to avoid sex for at least a fortnight, so that the urge for the sex peaks to its top.
2. Make it beautiful and musical
The environment plays a big role in mood building. You need to make your bedroom as exotic as you can. You can try candles, satin sheets, beautiful fragrances and flower petals. Music can be a great mood maker. You need to have a soft music system playing the music that you both like. The music can be an instrumental or the soft music you like. Good music pleases your soul and lightens up your mood. It removes tiredness out of the equation. However, do not go with what other people played at their wedding night. You need to find your own music and let it help your to explore more.
3. Talking is the best foreplay
Sex in a wedding night needs to be divine. Therefore, you need to make your partner comfortable with you. You need to feel your partner’s soul and the urge for the magical night. You can start with discussing wedding details, funny moments and other things. You should know that the best orgasmic experiences always come with both love and sex.
4. Proceed slowly
You should never rush in with sex. The wedding event is very tiring and your partner might need a little rest before staying awake the whole night. You need to savor each moment and enjoy its delicacy. A girl always loves it when you proceed slowly and go on to being a smooth criminal. They like it when you whisper and are gentle.
5. Remove the benchmarks
Most of the times, in order to make the wedding night more memorable, people indulge in things very deeply. Never set a benchmark on that special night. You just need to enjoy whatever happening. If you are tired, then rest for a while or indulge in foreplay. Always remember sex is 90 % mental and only 10 % physical happiness. Therefore, these frustrating benchmarks will surely spoil your night.
6. Find the spots
Always start with the foreplay while you both are fully clothed. Try finding the spots, which makes your partner, crave for more. Most of the time, even soft whispering turns on your partner. You can try the region behind the neck and caress slowly the whole body. You can even try caressing partner’s hair. It works a lot with your partner surely finding the orgasm faster. Let your partner undress you. It surely is great turn on with many or you can let him or her watch while you undress yourself slowly with the music.
7. New is always good
If you are already having a relationship for a long time, you can try being a little different. You can try different poses that you have not tried before. However, do assess your strength before you try lifting as most of the time the tired body does not support it. You can read books and consult few poses that you can do and have not tried yet. Trying things differently that stimulates your partner to experiment something of thier own that can even make your night more exciting.
8. Dress yourself sexily
Sex is not about staying naked. It is about the exploration. A revealing dress or perfect fitting lingerie can boost your partner’s sexual excitement to the next level. You should try to know your partner’s deepest fantasy and prepare yourself accordingly. You can play the role of your partner’s fantasy. Fulfilling the fantasy gives extra strength for sex. An excellent piece of lingerie can ignite even the coldest and wettest piece of wood, if you can get the analogy.
9. Play the game
Sex can be a wonderful game. You can start with blindfolding and let your partner feel your caressing. Unable to anticipate your move can turn your partner on for more. You can also make your partner taste different stimulating foods like strawberries or wine, while in blindfold, to increase the pleasure. You can try sex toys as it surely takes sex to a different level. You can even try the furry handcuffs. However, using toys and handcuffs should always be with your partner’s permission.
10. Learn about sex if you are virgin
Learning is the best tip, for those who go for arrange marriage or practice abstinence to preserve their virginity for the wedding night. You need to understand that first time sex can be painful for both of you. You need to spend a great deal of time in foreplay and the actual sex needs to be of lesser duration. You should not force yourself and let your partner enjoy with you too. If you are comfortable, then you should proceed with your partner’s comfort. Too much of aggression can make your partner feel less interested in your future sexual life. Make the night all about your partner and learn the way to do the perfect sex with each passing moment of your wedding night.